Narcissists think in black and white. They see you as either good or bad. You are objects to them, a means to an end, but why is that? Why do narcissists and so many wounded adult children from toxic homes tend to suffer from black and white thinking? Black and white thinking has to do with whole object relations and object consistency. These essentially refer to the ability one has to see others and themselves in a realistic and fair manner. When we are healthy and we have learned to rely on our caretakers for consistent nurturing, we develop trust in others. When we have not had others to rely on, we are unable to view ourselves and others objectively.
Narcissism and black and white thinking make it impossible for narcissists to see others fairly. Narcissistic abuse rooted in the inability to oneself and others in an objective fair manner creates toxic dynamics. Those with codependency can also suffer from black and white thinking but tend to internalize thinking ill of themselves rather than using narcissistic projection.
Black and white thinking in relationships result in toxicity. Black and white thinkers tend to suffer from childhood trauma, inconsistent nurturing and have been unable to learn to have trust in others. Black and white thinking is dangerous and makes it difficult for us to see ourselves objectively. We see the world through the lens of good or bad, black or white. Although we should all strive to see the many shades of grey, black and white thinking robs one of their ability to think of oneself rationally.
I hope this video on the dangers of black and white thinking helps you better understand why narcissism and black and white thinking is inevitable and dangerous.
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